The beginning…

Hello. My name is Jennifer. My husband and I adopted a little boy this year, Bryan, and he is 6 years old. I thought I would share with you our journey and “labor pains.” I want to be sure and start from the beginning so you know WHY and HOW we decided to take this path. Buckle up and ENJOY THE RIDE BECAUSE I KNOW WE HAVE..

When I was younger, I remember saying that I wanted to adopt children. I didn’t know anything about adoption or know anyone who was adopted so I am not sure how I got this idea but I did. After Jeremiah and I got married, I was diagnosed with PCOS. They told us it would be difficult to get pregnant but we continued to try. Countless baby showers later, I had had enough. I wanted my chance to be a mother.

At a friends house one night, somebody mentioned they were going to adopt through the Foster Care System. That Monday we were signed up to take MAPP classes and get licensed for Adoption. We started our classes in October 2011 and had an approved Homestudy on December 20, 2011. This is going to sound a little harsh, but at this time we were allowed to start looking for children on a website. It’s very different than adopting a child that has been placed with you THROUGH Foster placement. We actually had to search through children on different websites. We submitted our homestudy EVERYDAY to so many different agencies and rarely received a reply. COUNTLESS children without homes and we were willing to give them one… but nobody called.

In March we decided to contact some agencies who have what they call Meet and Greets. Basically, you go to an event that is set up as a fun day for children in Foster Care or Group Homes who are waiting on a Forever home. We went to 3 events in April. I will skip to the punch here and let you know that we met our son on April 23, 2011. There he was playing a game all by himself. Normally I don’t have a problem talking to children but when I saw him, I was at a loss for words and was so scared to go up to him. I took a deep breath and just walked right up to play with him. LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT!

Bryan, my husband Jeremiah and I played all day. We played on the swings, we sang songs, had lunch, jumped on the trampoline, read books and told stories, played tick tac toe, had an Easter Egg hunt and shared cookies. There we met the Gaurdian Ad Litem, case worker and case manager. They were all so nice and loving. They shared with us that Bryan was just TPR’ed on April 22 so he hadn’t hit any websites yet and was legally available for adoption. They also stressed that they didn’t have any families in mind and would gladly start the process on Monday morning with us. The GAL said that she loved us for Bryan and wouldn’t not stop until she got what she wanted and that was all 3 of us together. Later that day, we say SEE YOU LATER to Bryan. (Of course I cried bc honestly you never know what will happen at these events or if you will see the children again.) I gave our information to everyone involved and took down theirs.. EXCEPT FOR THE GAL. Once we got in the car tohead back to town, I started emailing our homestudy to everyone involved. I asked them to send it to the GAL. This is when my labor pains begin…..


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Fun in the Sun-The Fountains

Not far down the road from Mulligan’s  are the Fountains at  Indiana River Park in Jensen Beach, Fl.  There is a children’s museum there and a fountain for the kids to run through and then a small beach along the river. It is the perfect place to hang with your family and have some fun in the sun!

And that is what we did!  We had my nephew along and my dad follow us too (actually he had to go get towels for us!)  The river water was perfect for the kids to play in and the beach great to hang out at!


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Family Fun at Mulligan’s Restaurant

It seems that when we go to visit my family in Florida, eating at Mulligan‘s has become a tradition.  It sits at the corner of  Jensen Beach Blvd and Indian River Drive overlooking the Indian River.

The atmosphere is fun and airy, and speaks “come on in and have a good time” when you walk by.  It fits into the “artsy” feel of down town Jensen.  With a whimsical decor of beach and island you really feel like you are on vacation, even if you lived here.

What I also like about it, is most times we are walking in with somewhere between 4-8 kids.  And makes me, as a mom, feel comfortable bringing my kids there.  They even have a kid’s night on Thursdays with Balloons, Face painting, Kids Eat Free with purchase of adult entrée & beverage. Now who can beat that?

My view on food is to eat food from where you are visiting.  So if you are near fresh seafood, get seafood!  I go the fish and fries, (yes maybe not the healthiest thing on the menu-but sooo good!)

 


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