6. Shares Responsibilities among its members
Oh I could go in so many different directions here.
When everyone works together things get done. Faster. Better. Easier.
Is it a women’s job? Is it a man’s job?
Let’s just agree some things men do better. And other things women do better.
Find the better and do them.
If the hubby cooks well, then enjoy it! If the wife likes fixing things up, wahoo!
It is about stepping up and taking initiative to know when you need to step up.
My husband is good at this most days. He will do dishes often. And he puts the lefts overs away.
But guys, if your wife is having a tough day, and not feeling good-step up. If baby is sticky, don’t walk away like you didn’t smell that. Trash over flowing…you get the idea!
And gals, our guys work hard. Do extra stuff for them when you can.
All over our house we are lacking this right now- initiative and shared responsibilities. Unless mommy is giving out who is cleaning what. It is not getting cleaned right now. There are something that are getting done. But I know this is where I have fallen in terms of good chores and shared responsibilities. We have had list before, but then kids come out and in.
And when I do ask them to clean some times I get screaming and whining. And sometimes they do it with a cheerful heart. And sometimes they do it without being asked.
We are going to work on this. I have already a few ides in place for the beginning of summer. This will be easier cause AnnieQ will be done with school and it will flow better.
My Kid Organization board on Pinterest has lots of ideas for chores. Check it out!
This is part of my Making Strong Families Series.
How do you share responsibilities?